A bedroom should be a sanctuary for relaxation and winding down where you can read a few pages before bed, catch up on favourite show with a cup of tea, and occasionally enjoy breakfast in bed when the house is finally quiet.
I see it as my safe sanctuary, a place that I feel truly set up where I can decorate to my needs and tastes, unconstrained by the kids or keeping things pet-proof. Yet, somehow, it’s the last room I get to whenever we need a home refresh, if at all.
The problem is, we often make do with what’s already there. A pillow that’s lost its shape, a duvet that’s seen better days, or a bed set-up that’s fine but not particularly comfortable. And when you’re constantly on the go, it’s easy to forget how much those little things affect the quality of rest you get. It pays to take a moment and do things for yourself. It’s the only way you can continue to show up for others.
So, I decided to invest in a few items to elevate my experience and maximise my comfort. You really don’t need a full bedroom makeover to achieve this; a few upgrades here and there are easy on the wallet but still pack a punch.
Going to bed is easy enough, but actually falling asleep is another story. Some nights it feels like the stars must align for me to drift off straight away. I either feel restless, toss and turn for half an hour, or feel a touch too chilly. And after one too many nights of broken, subpar sleep, followed by grumpy mornings and brain fog, I decided to try out a weighted blanket.
When I first tried it, I couldn’t believe it had taken me this long to buy one. The gentle, even weight feels like a hug and makes me less irritable, helping me to drift off more easily. It weirdly makes it easier to relax and really settle into bed, a perfect companion after a long day.
It’s also brilliant if you tend to feel the cold in the evenings. The added weight traps warmth well, so instead of piling on extra layers or turning the heating up, I just pull this over the duvet and instantly feel snug without overheating.
I knew that something had to change when I found myself balancing a cup of tea in one hand, my child’s homework questions in the other, and my laptop sprawled out in front of me all at once. What should be my peaceful place began to feel like a minefield; if I move an inch the wrong way, it all goes down. Now, I know the pre-bedtime chaos is not going to change, but we can find ways to take the fuss out of it and keep only the fun parts. That’s why I opted for the Bow Print Lap Tray. It gives me a proper, steady surface, which means no more awkward balancing acts or worrying about spills just as I start to unwind.
What I love most is that it doesn’t feel clinical or purely practical. The design adds a bit of personality, so it actually feels at home in the bedroom rather than something borrowed from the kitchen. Adding this one item has really helped to make a ritual of my everyday wind down routine. I get excited knowing that there is one less thing to worry about when I finally have time to myself.
Let’s talk about something we rarely replace: mattress toppers. They should really be changed every three years, but most of us keep them far longer. Over time, they lose their support, even if they don’t look worn.
Lately, I switched to the Memory Foam Topper and it has made me feel like I had a whole new bed, at only a fraction of the cost of a new mattress. It adds that gentle cushioning and support that makes you sink in just enough.
Pillows are also one of those things that should be replaced every one to two years. It’s an easy one to miss amidst all our seasonal changes, school schedules, and more exciting home renovations. Flat pillows can affect how well you sleep, and when you’re already stretched thin, good sleep isn’t a luxury. It’s essential.
Recently, I have changed too Deep Sleep Pillows which have brought back that plump, supportive feel I didn’t realise I was missing. It’s one of the most budget-friendly ways to improve your sleep instantly.
What I love about all these updates is that none of them require a full bedroom overhaul. No new bed frame. No repainting. No expensive redesign.
Just smart, affordable swaps that help us switch off, stay warm, and get comfortable.
Sometimes the best upgrades aren’t about how a bedroom looks, but how it feels when you’re using it. And when your days are busy and your evenings are precious, those small changes make a real difference.
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